Kwishyingira: Umunsi Umugeni Yinjiraga Mu Muryango Mushya

Nyarugenge – Mu Rwanda rwo hambere, kwishyingira ntibyari igikorwa cy’abantu babiri gusa, ahubwo byafatwaga nk’umuhango ukomeye wahuzaga imiryango ibiri ikaba umwe. Nyuma yo gusaba no gukwa, hageraga igihe cyari gitegerejwe na benshi, aho umugeni yavaga iwabo akajya gutangira ubuzima bushya mu rugo rw’umugabo.

Ku munsi wo kwishyingira, iwabo w’umukobwa habaga huzuye ibyishimo n’agahinda kacye ko gutandukana n’umwana wari umaze imyaka myinshi arererwa mu muryango. Ababyeyi, ba nyirasenge n’abakuru b’umuryango bamugiraga inama z’ubuzima bw’urugo, bamwibutsa kubaha umugabo, kurangwa n’ubwitonzi no kubungabunga umuryango.

Abaturage bo mu gace umugeni yavukiyemo bamusezeragaho bamwifuriza amahirwe n’urugo rwuje amahoro. Indirimbo n’imbyino gakondo byaririmbwaga mu rwego rwo kwishimira intambwe nshya yari agiyemo.

Kwakirwa Mu Rugo Rushya

Iyo umugeni yageraga mu rugo rw’umugabo, yakirwaga mu cyubahiro n’abagize umuryango mushya. Abasaza n’abakecuru bamwifurizaga umugisha, mu gihe abakazana n’abandi bo mu rugo bamwerekaga aho azatura ndetse n’uburyo bw’imibereho y’urugo.

Muri uwo muhango, umugeni yafatwaga nk’umunyamuryango mushya wari uje gukomeza amateka n’umuco by’umuryango yari yinjiyemo. Yamenyeshwaga inshingano ze kandi agahabwa ubufasha bwo kumenyera ubuzima bushya.

Ubumwe Bw’Imiryango Ibiri

Kwishyingira kandi byari umwanya wo gushimangira ubucuti n’ubufatanye hagati y’imiryango yombi. Ababyeyi b’umugabo n’ab’umugeni bakomezaga kugirana umubano wa hafi, bakunganirana mu bihe bitandukanye by’ubuzima.

Abasesenguzi b’umuco bavuga ko ari imwe mu mpamvu zatumaga ingo nyinshi ziramba, kuko ikibazo cyose cyabaga gihuriweho n’umuryango mugari aho kuba ikibazo cy’abashyingiranywe bonyine.

Mu Gice Gitaha

Mu gice cya gatatu tuzabagezaho inkuru irambuye ivuga ku buzima bw’umugeni mushya mu rugo rw’umugabo, inshingano ze, n’uburyo yakomezaga kwinjira mu muryango no kugirirwa icyizere n’abawugize.

Byateguwe mu rwego rwo gusigasira amateka n’umuco nyarwanda. 📰🇷🇼