URUKUNDO RWUBAKIYE KU MAFARANGA RWARANGIYE MU MUBABARO

URUKUNDO RWUBAKIYE KU MAFARANGA RWARANGIYE MU MUBABARO

 

Kigali– Mu buzima bwa buri munsi, hari abantu benshi binjira mu rukundo bashingiye ku nyungu z’amafaranga aho gushingira ku rukundo nyakuri. Inkuru ya Aline na Patrick ni urugero rugaragaza uko urukundo rwubakiye ku mutungo rushobora kurangira nabi.

 

Aline yari umukobwa ukiri muto wari ufite inzozi zo kubaho ubuzima bwiza. Yakundaga kwambara imyenda igezweho no gusohokana n’inshuti ze ahantu hahenze. Nubwo yakoraga imirimo itandukanye, amafaranga yabonaga ntiyari ahagije kugira ngo abeho uko yabyifuzaga.

 

Mu mwaka wa 2024, Aline yahuye na Patrick mu birori byari byateguwe n’inshuti zabo. Patrick yari umusore wari umaze gutera imbere mu bucuruzi. Yari afite imodoka nziza, atuye mu nzu igezweho kandi azwi nk’umuntu ukunda gufasha abandi.

 

Nyuma y’icyumweru kimwe gusa, aba bombi batangiye kuganira buri munsi. Patrick yagaragazaga urukundo rwinshi kandi yifuzaga kubaka ejo hazaza heza hamwe na Aline. Mu gihe gito, yatangiye kumuha impano zitandukanye zirimo telefone igezweho, imyenda n’ibindi bikoresho by’agaciro.

 

Abaturanyi n’inshuti za Aline batangiye kubona impinduka zikomeye mu mibereho ye. Yatangiye gusohoka kenshi, kujya muri resitora zihenze no kwiyereka abantu nk’umuntu ufite ubushobozi.

 

Nubwo byasaga nk’urukundo rukomeye, bamwe mu nshuti za Patrick batangiraga kubona ko Aline yakundaga kuvuga cyane ku mafaranga no ku mitungo kuruta uko yavugaga ku mishinga y’urukundo rwabo. Hari igihe yabwiraga inshuti ze ko yishimiye kuba yabonye umuntu ushobora kumufasha kugera ku buzima yifuzaga.

 

Hashize amezi make, ubucuruzi bwa Patrick bwahuye n’ibibazo bikomeye. Isoko yari asanzwe acururizamo ryahindutse, bamwe mu bafatanyabikorwa be baramureka, ndetse amafaranga yatangiye kugabanuka ku buryo bugaragara.

 

Patrick yagerageje gukomeza ubuzima nk’uko byari bisanzwe, ariko ibintu byakomezaga kuba bibi. Yabaye ngombwa ko agurisha imodoka ye kugira ngo yishyure imyenda yari afite.

 

Aline abonye ibyo bibazo, yatangiye guhindura imyitwarire. Ntiyongera kwakira telefoni za Patrick nk’uko byahoze. Ubutumwa yamwohererezaga bwamaraga amasaha menshi butarasubizwa. Igihe bahuraga, ibiganiro byabo byabaga bigufi kandi birimo uburakari.

 

Mu kiganiro yagiranye n’inshuti ye magara, Patrick yavuze ko yari amaze kubona ko urukundo yakundaga Aline rutari rugishingiye ku mutima.

 

Yagize ati:

 

*”Naramukundaga kandi nifuzaga ko twubakana. Ariko nkiri mu bihe byiza byose byari byoroshye. Ibibazo bitangiye, ni bwo natangiye kubona ko atari urukundo nyakuri.”*

 

Nyuma y’amezi make, Aline yafashe icyemezo cyo gutandukana na Patrick. Yamubwiye ko batagihuza kandi ko buri wese yagomba gukomeza ubuzima bwe.

 

Icyo cyemezo cyababaje Patrick cyane. Ariko aho kwiheba, yahisemo kongera gukora cyane no gushaka uburyo bwo kuzahura ibikorwa bye by’ubucuruzi.

 

Nyuma y’imyaka ibiri, ibintu byaje guhinduka. Patrick yongeye kubona amahirwe mu bucuruzi bwe, ibikorwa bye biraguka ndetse yongera kuba umwe mu bacuruzi bari gutera imbere.

 

Muri icyo gihe, yahuye na Diane, umukobwa wari umuzi kuva kera. Diane yamubaye hafi mu bihe bikomeye atitaye ku rwego rw’ubukungu yariho. Uko iminsi yagiye ishira, urukundo rwabo rwaje gukomera maze bafata icyemezo cyo kubana nk’umugore n’umugabo.

 

Aline abonye Patrick yongeye gutera imbere, yagerageje kongera kumwegera. Ariko Patrick ntiyashatse gusubira mu mateka yari yaranyuzemo.

 

Abasesenguzi b’imibanire bavuga ko urukundo rugomba gushingira ku kwizerana, kubahana no gushyigikirana mu bihe byiza n’ibibi. Iyo rushingiye gusa ku nyungu z’amafaranga cyangwa umutungo, akenshi ntiruramba.

 

Inkuru ya Aline na Patrick itanga isomo rikomeye ku rubyiruko n’abakundana muri rusange: amafaranga ashobora guhindura imibereho, ariko ntashobora gusimbura urukundo nyakuri. Iyo ibibazo bije, ni bwo hagaragara ukuri kw’umubano.